Lynn,

You have to understand that everything in the universe is energy. Any relationship, be it personal or professional is also energy. Like a bank account. You have to be aware of what (energy) you are investing, and what you are getting back as returns. By the sound of it, this guy is not giving you anything definite.! So there's your answer- only you are probably ignoring it! So, I am not going to enen venture a card spread on that!

If it were a bank account, or an investment portfolio, what would you do? Keep it running, and keep investing, and nothing definite is showing? I think not.

So, pull your energy out. If you change your pattern, so will he. If you are sure of what you want, then you will align yourself with the universe, and it will send you what you intend on having. If you tell yourself I want someone who is free, and available, and treat me well, and clear about his commitment; then this is what the universe will send you. There are no two ways about it.

This is how things manifest: We attract what we believe, and intention is the greatest force that makes things happen. Intend on being loved in equal measure, and that you deserve better. You will see what will happen. In other words, if your intention is to have the right relationship, then what are you doing waiting, and spending your energy on this one?

Do not lecture the guy, because if he needs lecturing, then he is not ready, or not aware of his choices nor his commitment; and obviously not mature about making decisions and rising up to the challenges of life and emotional growth. Already the universe is showing that his signals are not clear. Therefore, move from that space, close that investment, and ask for a proper relationship, and let this one go. 

If this man is right, then he will miss your energy, and he will realise you are not waiting, indefinitely, for him to make a decision. In that case he night be more clear, forthcoming, when he realises you are moving on, and not giving him as much of your time, and energy.

If he is not right, then you would have had your answer. His pattern of behaviour would not change. Do not drain yourself. Learn to observe your life, and your 'investments', and you will be more aware of what you are creating in your life.

Will be another one?Of course, and why not. Be aware of your thoughts, your beliefs, your patterns, and accept the signals that are shown to you. From now on, if you are centred, you will draw the right energy to you and there will be someone who is right for you as committed and as clear.

Life is about us realising that we have self-will, we need to be clear of what are motives are, and not to manipulate anything out of fear (for example, I can't let this one go in case I never meet another one. If this is your belief, then this is exactly what you'll draw to yourself) and way out our energy investments. Remember, the universe is abundant.

Much love and light

Sahar

I have been receiving many questions of general nature, about psychic and spiritual matters from visitors to the web site and readers of PS Magazine from all over the world. I hope to be able to bring readers more information through this Category, "Psychic Agony Aunt".

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